Why is it so important to be able to fight back against hamams and aggressors? People who were raised in families where children were ignored, devalued or suppressed have not developed protective skills to behave with their elders, and then with those who are superior to them. As children, they did not learn to set boundaries, as they obeyed parents who had no idea of the boundaries of a small person's personality. And it is likely that even in adulthood, such people will not be able to set these boundaries in relations with colleagues and superiors. If we don't finally learn how to protect ourselves from presumptuous boors, we won't be able to protect our children or teach them how to defend themselves.