MOBBING NO

Why is it important to know about mobbing

27.9.2016

Daria Nevskaya, the author of the idea and creator of the first Russian-language website mobbingu.net, fully dedicated to the problems of harassment and bullying in the workplace, adolescents and cyber space, talks about why it is so important to know about mobbing. More details about the recipient of our site: http://mobbingu.net/articles/detail/88/ (Video by Vadim Syshchikov).


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- I am Daria Nevskaya, author and creator of the first Russian-language website fully dedicated to the problem of harassment and bullying in the workplace and among teenagers. The site is called mobbingu.net. How did you come up with the idea of creating a website? As is often the case, I have been through bullying and persecution on my own; I have been a victim of bullying and persecution myself, and I can share my experience and knowledge that I gained while working on this complex and difficult topic. I want to help other people, and I want information about mobbing, bullying and persecution to be spread widely in a space where the Russian language is used...

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